got an email telling me i had been outbid when i was in manchester today so thought ah well wasn't mad keen on them at that price anyway and arranged to spend the money elsewhere

got home to find an email saying a bid had been removed and i am now the high bidder, wtf! surely ebay should have asked me if i was still interested??

i suspect it was this seller getting bids put to see what i had bidded up to and then retracted the bid made by a friend or significant other
anyway i have sent an email to the seller,
where do i stand with this now as i can't afford it now i've put the money elsewhere?
email sent to seller>
hello whilst i was out in manchester today i received an alert from ebay telling me i had been outbid on your item, so i ah well and spent the spare cash elsewhere.
I've got home from the concert and found that i'm now the only listed bidder and i have an email from ebay saying a bid had been canceled and that i am now the high bidder again, i now no longer have the disposable cash and would like my bid to be canceled please
Thanks
Seb