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Trouble is, with your life upside down everyone else is getting festive (well sort of). Lousy time of year for your circumstances, but there isn't a good time anyway. Just look after one another because when it feels like you can cope a bit................... that dog of grief bites your rear again. That's how depression seems to creep back; just when it seems OK to join the human race again.

Our thoughts are with you.

mellis wrote:Well guys it has been a week and things aren't much better to be honest. We are coming to terms but we are at the beginning of a very long road. Your thoughts are most welcome. Haven't even been out on the bike for a fortnight, just haven't felt the need. Strange times indeed.......

Chin Up Lad. It's too soon yet. We just buried my wives dad last week and I'm still expecting him to come bursting in the back door and tell me to get the kettle on. It just doesn't seem real for either of us and it feels crap.
I know what LSM means about the Christmas thing, I'm not feeling it either.
Just remember to be patient with each other, let it happen at it's own pace and don't feel guilty about having a good day or not thinking of the little tyke all the time.
A good future is still around the corner if you'll let it.

Best wishes

Pete.l

mellis wrote:Well guys it has been a week and things aren't much better to be honest. We are coming to terms but we are at the beginning of a very long road. Your thoughts are most welcome. Haven't even been out on the bike for a fortnight, just haven't felt the need. Strange times indeed.......

Mellis,

It's still very early days yet mate (as Pete said), but at least you're both facing the truth, which is positive thinking, so that can only be good.

Just because I've not posted lately doesn't mean that my wife and myself have not been thinking about you both, well have

Unfortunately life rarely is straight forward, as if it was it would be boring, although I'm sure you both would settle for boring right now, if it meant you could turn the clock back. Things will get better in time, that bit I know is true.

Take care of each other,

Chris.

Happy Birthday son, we still miss you so much.......

mellis wrote:Happy Birthday son, we still miss you so much.......

I can hardly believe Mark that 12mths has gone by already

Happy Birthday from me also

RIP little one,

Chris.

Cheers Chris, it means a lot that you have taken the time to think of us.

If this helps as an outside party contact SANDS, you can find on net they may help with your grief. So sad to hear. Perplexing but time will come and the outcome will be more fulfilling!

Belated wishes to you both.
I hope time has soothed things a little and you have found a private place in your heart which you can open often and think of Issac and what he may of become.
Not forgotten.

Pete.l

Mellis as a dad myself it makes me blub just thinking of your loss. Stay strong buddy.

a year gone by already...hope things are gettin a bit easier fella

best wishes....john'o

Thanks guys. Time has healed us a little, but not a lot

Jeez Mark, I am absolutely gutted for you

My wife miscarried about 2 years ago so I know exactly what you are going through. Keep the faith mate, time is a great healer and on attempt no 2 we now have a baby daughter Sophie who is an absolute star and the centre of our universe. You will get through this mate despite feeling like you do at the moment.

Best wishes to you both

Another year son, you have a younger sister now. We still miss you so much though.

Love Mum and Dad and Immy

Wow!
Another year already

Sleep tight, little Issac.

Pete.l

Remembering you little Isaac, especially today.

Chris.