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Keren is going to have to have a termination next week. The baby has kidney dysplasia, it will not survive the birth. We are truly broken hearted. She will have to give birth to it, that will be the real nightmare. It will take a long time for us to get over this. Don't know what else to say. Can't stop crying. Feel useless, empty and numb. Keren is in pieces, we had just started to buy baby furniture and prams. We know that there will be others and that at least we know we can get pregnant but it doesn't make much difference at the moment. Go easy my friends. Mark

Im really sorry to hear that and not sure what to say about something so awful, please try and keep strong for yourself and your wife she obviously needs you to be stronger than ever.
i wish you the best of luck in the future.

gutted big time for you and keren ,
keep your chin up though mark.it will get better.
take care.

pat.

All my love to you both, words can't say how bad i feel for you xxxxxxxxxx

Desperately gutting news for you and yours. Sharing here, as I'm sure you've done with your families, is the best start to prepare treasuring and mourning your baby's tragically short life.

Is it one or both kidneys that are effected?

oh my,what sad news...heart goes out to you both..am truly sorry to read this.

Holy sh1t.

Definitely one of those times when all the bad things that happen seem to pale into insignificance in the face of something truly awful.

I can't begin to imagine what you're feeling and can only offer my sincerest condolences.

so sorry to hear this news mellis,what a cruel blow to you both

Kitch wrote: Definitely one of those times when all the bad things that happen seem to pale into insignificance in the face of something truly awful.

I can't begin to imagine what you're feeling and can only offer my sincerest condolences.

well said
my thoughts are with you and the misses

God only knows what you are feeling right now, my thoughts and wishes are with you both.

Thanks all. Not much more to say, don't really know who to turn to. Suddenly living in Germany miles away from my family doesn't seem like such a good idea. Please keep us in your thoughts. Mark

I'm very saddened too hear that Mellis I really feel for you and Keren

My thoughts are with you both Take care in your job as your wife will need you now more than ever,

Chris.

Terrible Shame you Guys.
Needless to say, Look after each other.

Pete.l

Really sorry to hear this mate, i know what you mean about feeling useless, i have a hard time with Nutty going through all the pregnancy bit and me just standing watching, i can't imagine what your going through and it scares the crap out of me even more about the future and what can happen, i hope you are both stay strong for each other.

We're all here for you and thinking of you both.

Mark there is nothing anybody can say to make things better, but everybody on here will be praying for you I am sure.

Best wishes to you both.

Keith