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I Know this may sound really strange but I need some eyes out there. Ford Focus MK1 W595 XOO

My girl friend has done a disappearing act, emptied almost all her stuff out our house, left a load of stuff in storage at my dads house, left her animals here, and Ive just lent her a load of money, and taken some of my stuff, oh and she has keys to my house and dads house and now I'm being totally blanked!
From speaking to her friends she has done this before, had a minor breakdown a few years back.
but one of her other friends says she does this uses people and then does a runner.
I want to give her the benefit of the doubt but something don't seem right from having a conversation with one of her friends today, kind of along the lines of shes not coming back, shes not where you think she is as in wales or leeds she may be closer than you think.
Wales area would be Prestatyn area, leeds not to sure about.

Shes a Rail PTS holder and I know she is working on the railways, possibly for a company called weedfree uk, now they operate in Wessex, kent and sussex, so 2 out of them could be closure than I think(Horsham and Tonbridge depot)
If it is leeds it will be close to a rail depot.

So if anyone can keep a eye out for a Silver Focus MK1 3 door Reg W595XOO.

I just need some answers, I dont like the idea of that she can walk back in here anytime she feels like it and take what ever she wants, want to give her the benefit of the doubt, I love her but something just dont seem right!
but I do have some major concerns, dont want to involve the police would like to keep this low key and see if she appears.

Just to say this I'm not stalking her, just need to know if I have been dumped and I want my stuff back and want to know what to do with hers

cheers all

My god tony, your luck doesn't get any better! Hopfully she will get in touch and you can at least know where u stand.

In the meantime I would not bother wasting any money on the lottery

Change the locks, yours & your dads.

If she does come back for any of her stuff she will have to contact you to get access.

Bit harsh maybe but saves on the doubt that she may pass the keys on to someone else.

Change the locks

That was my first thought too when reading this.

(:-})

My god hope you get it sorted and or some answers soon mate

change looks and get a wifi ip camera that alerts you on motion detection

Ever got to the point when you feel like giving up?
thats how I feel right now, back is killing me, I'm struggling to drive and then all this lot jumps on aswell

If she's gone missing mate report it to the cops, they will tag her reg number and an ANPR camera will pick her up for sure ;-)

Even if you don't want her back, with the trouble she's caused you, get them on her back then at least you get her found and get some answers!

P.s what's your dad playing at storing her stuff?? Get it all on eBay!

shes not missing think its her way of telling me to f**k off basically.
sorry for swearing

I see mate, sorry to hear that :-(

Although getting all the stuff on eBay still sounds a good idea? :-)

TonyW650 wrote:shes not missing think its her way of telling me to f**k off basically.
sorry for swearing

Swear away fella, doubt anyone on here will mind.

Can't say I agree with seb's advice to change your looks, a new haircut might make you feel good for a while but it won't last long.

TonyW650 wrote:shes not missing think its her way of telling me to f**k off basically.
sorry for swearing

sorry to hear all this. i thought she was missing ?? if she isnt missing i would consider changing the locks , if she is missing i would tell the police because you would get a resolution quicker = less stress for you

Keep your chin up .
Things will get better time heals all wounds , questions are plentiful but answers are few .
The road is long and has many turns some good and some not so .
You can sit a a set of broken traffic lights or you can take a chance a proceed .

I was at my lowest 7 years ago and thought the end was nigh and couldn't see a way forward but you never know what's round the next corner .

I found my love for bikes again and found a very nice woman who keeps me well fed ! I am a very happy man again .

Bloody hell Lloydie have you been spending time with Buddhist's. Quite right in what you saying though. There's a lot to be said for positivity

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cybercarl wrote:Bloody hell Lloydie have you been spending time with Buddhist's. Quite right in what you saying though. There's a lot to be said for positivity

(:-})

No just the buds lol

lloydiecbr wrote:Keep your chin up .
Things will get better time heals all wounds , questions are plentiful but answers are few .
The road is long and has many turns some good and some not so .
You can sit a a set of broken traffic lights or you can take a chance a proceed .

I was at my lowest 7 years ago and thought the end was nigh and couldn't see a way forward but you never know what's round the next corner .

I found my love for bikes again and found a very nice woman who keeps me well fed ! I am a very happy man again .

Lloydie, you forgot the Homer Simpson wisdom:

* This is not the worst day of your life, its only the worst day so far!
* Beer: The cause of, and solution to, all of life's problems.
* If something's hard to do, then it's not worth doing.
* When will I learn? The answer to life's problems aren't at the bottom of a bottle, they're on TV.

Also, I have to admit that when I am stressed and cant sleep, I plan a bike ride or try and work out how I will impliment a modification. and when all the women in my house [wife, 2 teenage girls and also the cat!] are doing my head in I go to the garage to unwind. Bikes are our saviour