That should put a smile on your face
Hey Timbo,
I feel your pain bro, I have got "the belly" too as i also joined the singles club this weekend man. As with yours it "seems" amicable....i say "seems" because there is still the issue of "stuff" that i need to get back from her.( stuff has been discussed in previous thread... do a search for "stuff" with the commas.)
I am pretty gutted about it too fella, was with her 2years for all but a week...The truth is tho it has just fallen flat on its face time and time again and neither of us can be bothered with it anymore.
So like yourself matey i will be buying my own Xmas pressie this year.
As for what you should get, well you have a nice bike already mate......I would buy the tv and bask in HD glory....wait till jan sales tho..they are around £600-£700 for a decent one but will prob be £500 just after the 25th......u know it makes sense
Good luck, chin up. "the belly" will go in time...just gotta suck it in and blow it out.
John'o
I feel your pain bro, I have got "the belly" too as i also joined the singles club this weekend man. As with yours it "seems" amicable....i say "seems" because there is still the issue of "stuff" that i need to get back from her.( stuff has been discussed in previous thread... do a search for "stuff" with the commas.)
I am pretty gutted about it too fella, was with her 2years for all but a week...The truth is tho it has just fallen flat on its face time and time again and neither of us can be bothered with it anymore.
So like yourself matey i will be buying my own Xmas pressie this year.
As for what you should get, well you have a nice bike already mate......I would buy the tv and bask in HD glory....wait till jan sales tho..they are around £600-£700 for a decent one but will prob be £500 just after the 25th......u know it makes sense
Good luck, chin up. "the belly" will go in time...just gotta suck it in and blow it out.
John'o
Keep it gutter...Keep it grimey..........one!
Go out with a good mate on an all dayer! Get drunk, then drink gin.... cry if needed then get more drunk, force down some take away then join the internet sha**ing revelation! I am jealous, lots of single mates just cruise the UK meeting nice (well maybee nice) ladies that they have met on't t'interweb, and trust me when I say these guys are no Antonios Banderos's . Enjoy !
P.S I am insane do not.....I repeat do not listen to a word I type!
P.S I am insane do not.....I repeat do not listen to a word I type!
I see myself as a sensitive intelligent man but with the heart of a clown that causes me to **ck things up right at that crucial moment........'Jim Morrison'
and then u met vicky??....sounds just like me mike...i was married to a bitch...6 years of hell, left me broke she did....1 year of single life then bang, i met sue...16 yrs later...FirestormMike wrote:Why does this all sound familiar ???
Took me 16 years to get rid of mine.
Done the divorce, bought the telly, xbox etc...
Was going to have 2 bikes (still might) but blinged up the storm instead.
"CELEBRATE GOOD TIMES COME ON LET'S CELEBRATE..
THERES A PARTY GOIN ON RIGHT HERE ,LETS CELEBRATE, IT'S ALRIGHT,"
Sweet jesus man, get the big bad kwaker, and find a nice young throwaway seat cover for the pillion,that likes to be thrown around the bedroom, take out your angst on it's ass, with your punishing stick.
Enjoy the single life my m8..
"GONNA HEAD OUT OF THIS CITY ,GONNA LEAVE MY WOES BEHIND,
DO ANYTHIN YOU WANNA DO.....DO ANYTHIN YOU WANNA DO...
THERES A PARTY GOIN ON RIGHT HERE ,LETS CELEBRATE, IT'S ALRIGHT,"
Sweet jesus man, get the big bad kwaker, and find a nice young throwaway seat cover for the pillion,that likes to be thrown around the bedroom, take out your angst on it's ass, with your punishing stick.
Enjoy the single life my m8..
"GONNA HEAD OUT OF THIS CITY ,GONNA LEAVE MY WOES BEHIND,
DO ANYTHIN YOU WANNA DO.....DO ANYTHIN YOU WANNA DO...
I AM THE STRANGE MAN YOUR MOTHER WARNED YOU ABOUT......
Have a sweetie and stop crying........
[Werthers Original...they never get rid of the taste]
Have a sweetie and stop crying........
[Werthers Original...they never get rid of the taste]
Timbo,
I know how you feel at the moment, as up until the actual split it hardly feels real
But trust me, time is a great healer, and you will get through it and out the other side, a slightly older but wiser person
Life rarely is straight forward, because if it was it would be boring
Chin up mate, and to you John'o
Cheers,
Chris.
I know how you feel at the moment, as up until the actual split it hardly feels real
But trust me, time is a great healer, and you will get through it and out the other side, a slightly older but wiser person Life rarely is straight forward, because if it was it would be boring
Chin up mate, and to you John'o
Cheers,
Chris.
Its interesting that Women historically seen as the weaker sex and thus the victims of break ups are increasingly aware of the power they hold over a relationship and it is the men who are now becoming the hurt party when a relationship fails.
or i could be talking bollox.
whatever you do dont hit the drink..took me 4 years to realise it was a problem and when i finally came out of the stupor i found myself staring at 4 walls in a shitty bedsit and no bike.
Has taken 12 years and a loving woman to get back on track and a bike, daughter and dog ( just in case wife see this, they are in no particular order of priority)
or i could be talking bollox.
whatever you do dont hit the drink..took me 4 years to realise it was a problem and when i finally came out of the stupor i found myself staring at 4 walls in a shitty bedsit and no bike.
Has taken 12 years and a loving woman to get back on track and a bike, daughter and dog ( just in case wife see this, they are in no particular order of priority)
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I dont think that men becoming the hurt party is a new thing.......the truth is we stick a brave face on most of the time and only really open up when we are having "man talk" with close friends or we speak to someone in the same situation as we can relate to it.
Personally, i feel gutted inside about what has happened between me and mine. In saying that tho, I see that i am luckier than some
i.e : wasnt married, got no kids or responsibilities to anyone other than myself now. It could be a lot worse.
As for the future, well...its bright..I will get the best xmas pressie ever( as i am buying it for myself) and next year is going to be the one where i do WTF i like WhenTF i like and no one is gonna talk shizzle in my ear about it.
As for finding another woman.... fook that for now, I aint interested in getting "roped" into a relationship for some time. The last 2 were 8years and 2years consecutively and i am only 28, i been chained up since i was 18ffs and now i just wanna have fun and enjoy my own time for a bit. Selfish??...very. But who gives a damn. I know i sure wont when i am kicking back on hol somewhere warm with me boys, getting drunk and batting fems off with my stick.
Bring it all on........john'o
Personally, i feel gutted inside about what has happened between me and mine. In saying that tho, I see that i am luckier than some
i.e : wasnt married, got no kids or responsibilities to anyone other than myself now. It could be a lot worse.
As for the future, well...its bright..I will get the best xmas pressie ever( as i am buying it for myself) and next year is going to be the one where i do WTF i like WhenTF i like and no one is gonna talk shizzle in my ear about it.
As for finding another woman.... fook that for now, I aint interested in getting "roped" into a relationship for some time. The last 2 were 8years and 2years consecutively and i am only 28, i been chained up since i was 18ffs and now i just wanna have fun and enjoy my own time for a bit. Selfish??...very. But who gives a damn. I know i sure wont when i am kicking back on hol somewhere warm with me boys, getting drunk and batting fems off with my stick.
Bring it all on........john'o
Keep it gutter...Keep it grimey..........one!
How is it that two people that have lived together for X years, can fight and bicker like kids in a playground , and have the love turn sour so it ends up in separation or divorce. Only to find that living apart makes them the best of pals.????It boggles the ol noodle so it does.. 
I AM THE STRANGE MAN YOUR MOTHER WARNED YOU ABOUT......
Have a sweetie and stop crying........
[Werthers Original...they never get rid of the taste]
Have a sweetie and stop crying........
[Werthers Original...they never get rid of the taste]
i was in your shoes 3 years ago ,i asked the question "what will make you stay" she said "sell your bike" i said " i will help you with your cases"
now have 4 bikes and had a few ex's since (realise i am a member of the selfish b8stard club)
there will be an other girlie out there for you bro so enjoy what you have its easy worrying about your self instead of lots of others
keeping busy will keep the lonleyness away
mind post a link to the web site if you find a good one
now have 4 bikes and had a few ex's since (realise i am a member of the selfish b8stard club)
there will be an other girlie out there for you bro so enjoy what you have its easy worrying about your self instead of lots of others
keeping busy will keep the lonleyness away
mind post a link to the web site if you find a good one
just because your breathing doesn't mean your alive