End of days.......

Seeker 77 · Post by **Seeker 77** » Sat Dec 01, 2007 10:05 pm

Keren is going to have to have a termination next week. The baby has kidney dysplasia, it will not survive the birth. We are truly broken hearted. She will have to give birth to it, that will be the real nightmare. It will take a long time for us to get over this. Don't know what else to say. Can't stop crying. Feel useless, empty and numb. Keren is in pieces, we had just started to buy baby furniture and prams. We know that there will be others and that at least we know we can get pregnant but it doesn't make much difference at the moment. Go easy my friends. Mark

newbie2 · Post by **newbie2** » Sat Dec 01, 2007 10:19 pm

Im really sorry to hear that and not sure what to say about something so awful, please try and keep strong for yourself and your wife she obviously needs you to be stronger than ever.
i wish you the best of luck in the future.

patty · Post by **patty** » Sat Dec 01, 2007 10:45 pm

gutted big time for you and keren ,
keep your chin up though mark.it will get better.
take care.

pat.

sparrowlegs · Post by **sparrowlegs** » Sat Dec 01, 2007 11:30 pm

All my love to you both, words can't say how bad i feel for you xxxxxxxxxx

Wicky · Post by **Wicky** » Sun Dec 02, 2007 12:08 am

Desperately gutting news for you and yours. Sharing here, as I'm sure you've done with your families, is the best start to prepare treasuring and mourning your baby's tragically short life.

Is it one or both kidneys that are effected?

vtrkarl · Post by **vtrkarl** » Sun Dec 02, 2007 12:31 am

oh my,what sad news...heart goes out to you both..am truly sorry to read this.

Kitch · Post by **Kitch** » Sun Dec 02, 2007 6:56 am

Holy sh1t.

Definitely one of those times when all the bad things that happen seem to pale into insignificance in the face of something truly awful.

I can't begin to imagine what you're feeling and can only offer my sincerest condolences.

tony.wilde1 · Post by **tony.wilde1** » Sun Dec 02, 2007 9:20 am

so sorry to hear this news mellis,what a cruel blow to you both

yanto · Post by **yanto** » Sun Dec 02, 2007 10:07 am

Kitch wrote: Definitely one of those times when all the bad things that happen seem to pale into insignificance in the face of something truly awful.

I can't begin to imagine what you're feeling and can only offer my sincerest condolences.

well said
my thoughts are with you and the misses

iggy1966 · Post by **iggy1966** » Sun Dec 02, 2007 3:18 pm

God only knows what you are feeling right now, my thoughts and wishes are with you both.

Seeker 77 · Post by **Seeker 77** » Sun Dec 02, 2007 7:48 pm

Thanks all. Not much more to say, don't really know who to turn to. Suddenly living in Germany miles away from my family doesn't seem like such a good idea. Please keep us in your thoughts. Mark

Post by **sirch345** » Sun Dec 02, 2007 11:06 pm

I'm very saddened too hear that Mellis

I really feel for you and Keren

My thoughts are with you both

Take care in your job as your wife will need you now more than ever,

Chris.

Pete.L · Post by **Pete.L** » Mon Dec 03, 2007 9:12 am

Terrible Shame you Guys.
Needless to say, Look after each other.

Pete.l

Post by **kevg** » Mon Dec 03, 2007 10:45 am

Really sorry to hear this mate, i know what you mean about feeling useless, i have a hard time with Nutty going through all the pregnancy bit and me just standing watching, i can't imagine what your going through and it scares the crap out of me even more about the future and what can happen, i hope you are both stay strong for each other.

We're all here for you and thinking of you both.

storminateacup · Post by **storminateacup** » Mon Dec 03, 2007 10:51 am

Mark there is nothing anybody can say to make things better, but everybody on here will be praying for you I am sure.

Best wishes to you both.

Keith