Dear Deidre,
I've never written to you before, but I really need your advice on what could be a crucial decision.
I've suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me.
The usual signs... phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up. My wife has been going out with the girls a lot recently although when I ask their names she always says, â€just some friends from work, you don't know them.â€
I always stay awake to look out foe her taxi coming home, but she always walks down the drive.
Although I can hear a car driving off, as if she has gotten out of a car round the corner.
Why? Maybe she wasn't in a taxi?.
I once picked her mobile phone up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed
that I should never touch her phone again, and why was I checking up on her.
Anyway, I never approached the subject with my wife. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to really check on her.
I decided I was going to park my Honda Firestorm next to the garage and then hide behind it so I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home.
It was at that moment, crouching behind my bike that I noticed that the camcovers on the engine seemed to be leaking oil.
Is this something I can fix myself or should I take it back to the dealer?
Thanks.